How to recognize a problem with a family member
Introduction
Often, loved ones notice the problem before the player. Proper diagnosis is the first step to help. Below are clear markers to look out for and recommendations for when to call the hotline.
1. Financial red flags
Frequent unexpected expenses: sudden write-offs from bank cards, microloans, high-interest debts.
Hidden transactions: attempts to hide the history of payments, the use of other people's cards or "secret" wallets.
Depletion of reserves: appeal to family savings, requests for loans at the "last rate."
2. Behavioral changes
Self-care and isolation: rejection of family dinners, events, rejection of hobbies in favor of "quick access" to the casino.
Obsessive discussion of games: constant conversations about bets, analysis of results, search for "hot" strategies.
Nervousness when trying to distract: irritation or aggression, if they interfere with playing: calls, household chores, work.
3. Emotional signs
Frequent irritability and mood swings: outbursts of anger, tears after losses, aggression at the mention of bets.
Anxiety and insomnia: the inability to relax without another bet, sleepless nights at the game.
Guilt and shame: hidden bets are accompanied by self-blame, avoidance of eye contact.
4. Social and professional implications
Conflicts in the family and quarrels: accusations of loved ones in the loss of money, attempts to hide the problem lead to distrust.
Reduced productivity: delays, unfulfilled duties, reduced academic performance or quality of work.
Refusal to communicate: disappearance and "loss" for several hours without explanation.
5. Physical symptoms
Signs of overwork: darkening circles under the eyes, weakness, headaches after long gaming sessions.
Changes in appetite: forgetting to eat or seizing stress while playing.
Psychosomatic complaints: heart palpitations, trembling hands when trying to stop.
6. What to do next
1. Observe and record the facts: dates, amounts, session times, reactions - for an objective conversation.
2. Contact the hotline:
Conclusion
Early recognition of problematic signs in a loved one is key to timely help. Financial anomalies, abrupt behavioral and emotional changes, social isolation and physical symptoms indicate the need to contact a hotline. Consultants will help build a specific support plan and regain control of the situation.
Often, loved ones notice the problem before the player. Proper diagnosis is the first step to help. Below are clear markers to look out for and recommendations for when to call the hotline.
1. Financial red flags
Frequent unexpected expenses: sudden write-offs from bank cards, microloans, high-interest debts.
Hidden transactions: attempts to hide the history of payments, the use of other people's cards or "secret" wallets.
Depletion of reserves: appeal to family savings, requests for loans at the "last rate."
2. Behavioral changes
Self-care and isolation: rejection of family dinners, events, rejection of hobbies in favor of "quick access" to the casino.
Obsessive discussion of games: constant conversations about bets, analysis of results, search for "hot" strategies.
Nervousness when trying to distract: irritation or aggression, if they interfere with playing: calls, household chores, work.
3. Emotional signs
Frequent irritability and mood swings: outbursts of anger, tears after losses, aggression at the mention of bets.
Anxiety and insomnia: the inability to relax without another bet, sleepless nights at the game.
Guilt and shame: hidden bets are accompanied by self-blame, avoidance of eye contact.
4. Social and professional implications
Conflicts in the family and quarrels: accusations of loved ones in the loss of money, attempts to hide the problem lead to distrust.
Reduced productivity: delays, unfulfilled duties, reduced academic performance or quality of work.
Refusal to communicate: disappearance and "loss" for several hours without explanation.
5. Physical symptoms
Signs of overwork: darkening circles under the eyes, weakness, headaches after long gaming sessions.
Changes in appetite: forgetting to eat or seizing stress while playing.
Psychosomatic complaints: heart palpitations, trembling hands when trying to stop.
6. What to do next
1. Observe and record the facts: dates, amounts, session times, reactions - for an objective conversation.
2. Contact the hotline:
- - Gamblers Help: 1800 858 858 (anonymous, 24/7)
- - Lifeline: 13 11 14 (for acute anxiety or suicidal thoughts)
- 3. Prepare information: financial data, examples of behavior, your concerns and questions.
- 4. Appoint a "controller": let someone from the family support you in the conversation and help you monitor the consultant's plan.
Conclusion
Early recognition of problematic signs in a loved one is key to timely help. Financial anomalies, abrupt behavioral and emotional changes, social isolation and physical symptoms indicate the need to contact a hotline. Consultants will help build a specific support plan and regain control of the situation.
