Developing a personal motivational plan for not playing
Introduction
A personal motivational plan is a clear map of the path from the decision to stop the game to a steady refusal. It combines conscious goals, internal and external motivators, specific actions and support mechanisms.
1. Determination of the final goal
1. Formulate a positive goal:
A personal motivational plan is a clear map of the path from the decision to stop the game to a steady refusal. It combines conscious goals, internal and external motivators, specific actions and support mechanisms.
1. Determination of the final goal
1. Formulate a positive goal:
- - "I want to stop the game and direct the released resources to study/work/health." 2. SMART criteria:
- Specific: Opt out of online casino betting.
- Measurable: no more than 0 bets per week.
- Attainable: start with complete self-exclusion or strict limits.
- Relevant (meaningful): Freedom from debt and emotional distress.
- Time-bound (time-limited): Game-free first month, then control analysis.
- Pursuit of financial freedom.
- The desire to restore psychological balance.
- Intention to improve relationships with loved ones. 2. External motivators:
- Friend/family support: arrange a weekly report.
- Commitment to publicly (in the circle of support) fulfill the goal.
- Encouragement from a specialist (consultant, psychologist).
- For every day without bets - a cup of your favorite drink outside the house.
- For a week - a trip to the cinema or a new book. 2. Large bonuses:
- For the first month - a short trip or buying a useful gadget.
- For three months - a large purchase associated with a hobby.
- Agree that with a strong desire to play, you call this person and perform one of the alternative actions. 2. Mutual aid groups:
- Regularly attend online or offline meetings of Gamblers Anonymous or similar communities. 3. Professional assistance:
- Consultations with a psychologist or psychotherapist on cognitive behavioral therapy to practice automatic patterns. 4. Self-regulation techniques:
- Mindfulness meditation (5-10 minutes a day) to reduce dopamine cravings.
- Exercise at least 3 times a week for a stable mood.
- Compare actual results (number of sessions, expenses) with targets.
- Evaluate the effectiveness of the alternatives and reward system. 2. Adjustments:
- Strengthen or loosen limits based on progress.
- Add new motivators or remove ineffective ones. 3. Focus on progress:
- Celebrate even small achievements to keep you motivated.
2. Identifying motivators
1. Internal motivators:
3. Planned activities and schedule
Stage | Action | Deadline |
---|---|---|
Prepare | Remove casino applications, block sites via router or DNS | Day 1 |
Limits | Set deposit and time limits (e.g. maximum 30 min and 10 AUD per week) | Day 1 |
Analysis of triggers | Keep a diary of triggers and emotions before wanting to play | Daily |
Alternative | Make a list of alternatives (sports, hobbies, meditation) and practice if you want to play | Immediately and constantly |
Reporting | Weekly meeting or call with proxy to report progress | Every Sunday |
Interim Analysis | SMART Goal Evaluation and Plan Adjustment | After 4 Weeks |
4. Remuneration system
1. Small awards:
Important - rewards are not associated with excitement and reinforce a new lifestyle.
5. Supportive strategies
1. Support Partner:
6. Plan evaluation and adjustment
1. Monthly Review:
Conclusion
A personal motivational plan is a detailed roadmap to freedom from gambling. Clear goals, identified motivators, a scheduled schedule of actions, a fair reward system and supportive strategies create a reliable basis for abandoning online casinos and forming new, healthy habits.