Developing a personal motivational plan for not playing
Introduction
A personal motivational plan is a clear map of the path from the decision to stop the game to a steady refusal. It combines conscious goals, internal and external motivators, specific actions and support mechanisms.
1. Determination of the final goal
1. Formulate a positive goal:- "I want to stop the game and direct the released resources to study/work/health."
- Specific: Opt out of online casino betting.
- Measurable: no more than 0 bets per week.
- Attainable: start with complete self-exclusion or strict limits.
- Relevant (meaningful): Freedom from debt and emotional distress.
- Time-bound (time-limited): Game-free first month, then control analysis.
2. Identifying motivators
1. Internal motivators:- Pursuit of financial freedom.
- The desire to restore psychological balance.
- Intention to improve relationships with loved ones.
- Friend/family support: arrange a weekly report.
- Commitment to publicly (in the circle of support) fulfill the goal.
- Encouragement from a specialist (consultant, psychologist).
3. Planned activities and schedule
4. Remuneration system
1. Small awards:- For every day without bets - a cup of your favorite drink outside the house.
- For a week - a trip to the cinema or a new book.
- For the first month - a short trip or buying a useful gadget.
- For three months - a large purchase associated with a hobby.
Important - rewards are not associated with excitement and reinforce a new lifestyle.
5. Supportive strategies
1. Support Partner:- Agree that with a strong desire to play, you call this person and perform one of the alternative actions.
- Regularly attend online or offline meetings of Gamblers Anonymous or similar communities.
- Consultations with a psychologist or psychotherapist on cognitive behavioral therapy to practice automatic patterns.
- Mindfulness meditation (5-10 minutes a day) to reduce dopamine cravings.
- Exercise at least 3 times a week for a stable mood.
6. Plan evaluation and adjustment
1. Monthly Review:- Compare actual results (number of sessions, expenses) with targets.
- Evaluate the effectiveness of the alternatives and reward system.
- Strengthen or loosen limits based on progress.
- Add new motivators or remove ineffective ones.
- Celebrate even small achievements to keep you motivated.
Conclusion
A personal motivational plan is a detailed roadmap to freedom from gambling. Clear goals, identified motivators, a scheduled schedule of actions, a fair reward system and supportive strategies create a reliable basis for abandoning online casinos and forming new, healthy habits.